You're My Favorite Living Human By Far

Ok so minutes after I posted that last post, and I'm already back.....because I read a comment somebody left and I have to respond. Here's the comment:

At what point does a person decide "I've got enough figured out in life that I can be with someone else"? Is it once they have had a job and lived on their own for a while (only after school is over)? From my experience with friends who have gotten married, it seems like where they are in figuring things out isn't the big issue-- it seems more that they want the same things in life- what they each dream of for the future go together well or are the same thing. i don't know...

Well, I don't think there's necessarily a point when that happens. Here's the twist in this whole mess. Finding someone is part of figuring things out. I just think in most cases it's a little better to have some other things figured out first, but if it comes go with it, however, ONLY if this person is totally open to you figuring things out. Just the same you have to be open to that person figuring things out, and both of you have to be ready and supportive of whatever you come up with.

As for the common dreams for the future I really like one part of what you said and that's the whole dreams go well together deal. I'd like to think I'd end up with someone who had dreams and goals that went well with mine rather than were the same. No offense to you same dreamers, but I think that's so boring. Give me somebody who has different deals that work well with mine yet still require work at getting it together. Actually I think many would agree with me. Who knows?

I'm spent. I'm going to a bar to even myself out.