Maybe You'll Be Good To Me

A friend had suggested that I write a little something on chemistry, and so I’ll give it a shot.

One major point I have about all this is, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO SHARE THINGS IN COMMON IN ORDER TO FIND CHEMISTRY. I think people in general put too much emphasis on shared interests. Of course, this is coming from a guy who promotes individuality like the governator promotes lame ass government reform that cause special elections that unnecessarily costs the state money. The thing is true chemistry between people goes beyond having things “in common.” See, I question people who explain that they click so well with a person because they have the same interests because…and here’s my next major point……..

CHEMISTRY IS INDESCRIBABLE. If you’ve ever heard or read me go on about “love” (I still don’t know who I’m quoting) this might sound familiar to you. You don’t have chemistry with someone because blah blah blah. You just have chemistry with someone. You don’t love someone because blah blah blah. You just love them. You might love blah blah blah about someone but that is not the reason you love him or her. You just do. You have chemistry with a person because it’s just there.

Now this doesn’t mean there aren’t people out there who are good at false chemistry. In fact we probably all are very good at this, mainly because it’s a nice feeling to click with somebody. We look for it even when it’s not there.

But really (I just keep looking for excuses to start sentences with ‘but’ and ‘and’) if you have to look for it, and this goes especially for the whole love deal, it’s not there. That doesn’t mean that it can’t be there. It just isn’t at that time.

And while we are speaking of the love phenomenon, if you’re asking yourself if you are in love with someone, and you had been dating that person for years, YOU DON’T AND NEVER WILL!!!!!!!!!!!

Awesome.