And I Wont Have To Worry About Me No More

So for whatever reason I got to thinking about myself in regards to relationships, and I started having serious doubts as to whether or not I’m a relationship type guy. The thing is I think I have too many features about me that are anti-relationship.

But (ha!!) then aren’t the good relationships the ones where the individual players compliment each other? So these anti-relationship features of mine could very well possibly have their own complimentary pro-relationship features.

I think way too much. Part of what makes me doubt that’d I’d be good at a relationship is I’d spend too much time analyzing it. So what if I was with a girl who didn’t let me think too much, a royal pain in the ass bitch who couldn’t keep her mouth shut, someone who would challenge me and keep me on my toes? I think that would be a good compliment. In fact, if I were with a quiet easy going chick I don’t think I would be able to handle it.

I’m a strong believer in independence/individuality, which can be very anti-relationship. Still, what if I’m with someone who believes in the same thing, a girl who let’s me do my own thing and does her own thing as well, a chick who knows that it’s the players that make the team not the team that makes the players?

There’s more but this is getting too personal…

The general lesson here is to look for someone who compliments you. I think most of us do this without even trying, but not all. For those who don’t just keep in mind “compliments” does not equal completes, fills a void, makes me feel better about myself, etc.

Eh.