These Days I Can't Lose
Recently I decided, after 2+ years of taking a "break", to go back to school. Currently I am attending one of the local community colleges and while walking through the campus I have been observing a few things.
What is with these couples that look like death. You know, the guy and the girl walking by with hands clasped together and almost no expression on either of their faces. There is no sign of life in these kids. They just don't look happy together, especially the males. It's not exactly like those "going through the motions" type couples, but it's somewhat similar. What bothers me the most about these couple is that the guy has that little certain color about him. He's one of those guys who is too cool to be happy, but he'll hold his girlfriend tight towards him because fuck you if you think you are going to get close to her, and fuck her if she thinks she's getting away. He's a stuck up little shit who can't let go of anything and she's an insecure girl who just wants to be held. His happiness is what matters. He could never be wrong.
I just wish these guys would lighten up already. The world isn't out to screw your girlfriend. If you can't hold your girlfriend's hand without a smile there is just something fucking wrong there. Hell, you don't have to smile. Just put some fucking life into your face. Stop looking so damn dead.
And to the girls on the other end of that hand clasp, put some damn life into your faces too. Stop looking like you're tired of this guy dragging you around. If you are tired of it LEAVE. It's that fucking easy. "But it's so much more complicated than that." No it isn't . If you're not happy in a relationship just fucking leave. TIME has nothing to do with it. Do not stay in a relationship because of its familiarity.
Seriously these couples annoy the shit out of me. BREAK THE FUCK UP ALREADY.
One positive here is most of these couples are young and hopefully will grow to realize what bullshit all that is.
On that note... I watched a couple break up today. The girl was breaking up with the guy and he was playing the depressed card. This reminded me...
If I had to give advice to someone on how to handle being dumped, it would be to not play the depressed card. It's easy to do because, well, you probably are depressed, but screw it. ACT if you have to, but you shouldn't have to. The thing is (has anyone noticed how often I use "the thing is"?) if someone is breaking up with you then logically you shouldn't be in that relationship. Don't make yourself look bad, and more importantly if you care about this person and she feels like she needs to move on you should not be so self-centered to want to stand in her way. There is something to be said about a person who can take a breakup well. Be that person. You will be rewarded. I guarantee it or your mattress is freeeeeeeeeeee.
P.S. This entry sucks!!!!
What is with these couples that look like death. You know, the guy and the girl walking by with hands clasped together and almost no expression on either of their faces. There is no sign of life in these kids. They just don't look happy together, especially the males. It's not exactly like those "going through the motions" type couples, but it's somewhat similar. What bothers me the most about these couple is that the guy has that little certain color about him. He's one of those guys who is too cool to be happy, but he'll hold his girlfriend tight towards him because fuck you if you think you are going to get close to her, and fuck her if she thinks she's getting away. He's a stuck up little shit who can't let go of anything and she's an insecure girl who just wants to be held. His happiness is what matters. He could never be wrong.
I just wish these guys would lighten up already. The world isn't out to screw your girlfriend. If you can't hold your girlfriend's hand without a smile there is just something fucking wrong there. Hell, you don't have to smile. Just put some fucking life into your face. Stop looking so damn dead.
And to the girls on the other end of that hand clasp, put some damn life into your faces too. Stop looking like you're tired of this guy dragging you around. If you are tired of it LEAVE. It's that fucking easy. "But it's so much more complicated than that." No it isn't . If you're not happy in a relationship just fucking leave. TIME has nothing to do with it. Do not stay in a relationship because of its familiarity.
Seriously these couples annoy the shit out of me. BREAK THE FUCK UP ALREADY.
One positive here is most of these couples are young and hopefully will grow to realize what bullshit all that is.
On that note... I watched a couple break up today. The girl was breaking up with the guy and he was playing the depressed card. This reminded me...
If I had to give advice to someone on how to handle being dumped, it would be to not play the depressed card. It's easy to do because, well, you probably are depressed, but screw it. ACT if you have to, but you shouldn't have to. The thing is (has anyone noticed how often I use "the thing is"?) if someone is breaking up with you then logically you shouldn't be in that relationship. Don't make yourself look bad, and more importantly if you care about this person and she feels like she needs to move on you should not be so self-centered to want to stand in her way. There is something to be said about a person who can take a breakup well. Be that person. You will be rewarded. I guarantee it or your mattress is freeeeeeeeeeee.
P.S. This entry sucks!!!!
posted by Angelo at 2/02/2006 12:36:00 AM
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