The Fabric Of Our Lives

I've been doing some research the past couple of days on a very controversial subject. It's amazing to me the extreme stands people take for or against such subjects. Especially towards what I am researching, there seems to be no middle ground. I can't accept this. This cannot be so cut and dry or black and white. This is a very grey subject and for people to claim otherwise is beyond me. As a human being, I refuse to take a stand on this subject, and that's why I'm being so vague right now. I will not fire up debate over this because it is something that just isn't debatable, so specifics are out. There are things that are just too personal, too specific to individuals, to be generalized in political/philosophical debate. That's all.